How to Say ‘NO’ with no Hurts and Guilty

We all will face a situation, where we have to say ‘No’ to others. They may be strangers or may be our close relatives either in our family or friendship. By saying ‘No’ to strangers will be a easy task but to our closed ones, we all will get fail to say ‘No’. We may say so many stories without explaining real problem or situation to say ‘No’. In worst cases, we may not able to say ‘No’ and half heartedly or with irritation, we will say ‘yes’. So what made us to behave like this? This is because to avoid a bad impression with the people or what might think about us, like the guess will go on. But it is our right to be bold in some situation where we cannot able to help others. So go through some situations here and learn how to say ‘No’ without hurting others and also not feeling guilty.
When we find out the situations, in what are all the situations will happen to say ‘No’ to our dear ones. The most important situation will happen in financial decisions. Our friend or our close relatives may ask for a financial help, even though we may have money but the situation makes us not to help them. The situation may be whatever but it is a reasonal situation which restricts to not to help them. At those times, what will do? Can we have that much bold to say ‘No’ in a straight way. Most of us won’t say a straight answer. We use to say ‘See, I am having this problem, so i need to spend for that.. also my mother is not feeling well, i need for that also, my sister coming for vacation, so I have to spend some money for the family…’ like the reasons will go on. The real reason is, he want to put that money in Bank for his future expenses. But he cannot say that reason straight. So this and that answers will play.
Most of the situation where we feel hesitate to say No’ will be with our close relatives or to our friends. It is really a difficult situation to say ‘No’ without hurting the other person who is asking help. So to tackle this type of problems, we have to be bold and straight forward. This case is the person who are really a helping tendency person but due to some unavoidable situation, he or she may not able to help. It is not for the people who are not at ready to help others in any situation.
Every relationship is important to us. At any time or any cost we should not hurt others. But at the same time, we have to be rigid in some cases which might cause a situation to break the relationships. Whatever may be, if the basic reason is proper, we have to be strong enough to explain our situation and in a polite way we can say ‘No’ to others in such a way that, it may not hurt others and also we will get inner satisfaction. Whereas if we play a role of explaining unwanted situations to say ‘No’, it may not be good and also we won’t get satisfied with our answer itself. It will act as a needle in our heart.

So be bold in our answer and maintain a good relationship with all. Life is to live with happiness. But we are searching happiness somewhere else but it is near by us. So find happiness in your life and enjoy the life.